Immature Love

College days are the days to enjoy with your friends and chose your field of interest and start work for a living, but what I see nowadays is the urgency among people hardly in their 20s to fall into a relationship with the opposite sex. I have seen people going crazy after each other to the extenet of forgetting even their closest buddies. The best dialogue that I often hear from people when I ask them about the craziness of a relationship is, “You wont understand it because u haven’t been in a relation, it is a different feeling that is fun and cant be described” Ok fair enough I say but what really bothers me is the mad rush for commitment among the youngsters, I cant believe people who have been in a relation for just 5 months committing to get married at the tender age of 21. You know your parents who brought you up and your friends who have been with you in thick and thin and one fine day a girl or a boy comes to your life and then all the people who have been with you till now, take a backseat. I appreciate one school friend of mine whom unfortunately am not in touch with, one day I saw him at the movies and was about to go and meet him when I saw a girl emerging besides him and I had heard the news that he was into a relation, so I decided not to go up and talk to him. The next time when I met him I told him about the incident and all he said was, “dude she knows me only for a year and u know me since the last five years so who do you think has the priority you or her?”……this sentence really touched my heart. I have known people who just because others have a girlfriend are desperate to have one in their life and the most illogical reasoning that they give is that “I am fed up of my life I need a change” so try going on a vacation but for such people its getting a girlfriend that s the solution. What happens is that at such tender age people tend to get so emotionally involved that when the relation does not work out and they break-up they go on to the extent of ruining their careers as these years are critically important. I am not against boyfriend-girlfriend relation but I really feel that people should be mature enough to enter into a relation and not go on dreaming about their future life. I find it really irritating when people are like, “I am done with her now and I am going to move on, but she’s still my very good friend and v are still in touch” I find this concept stupid when a boy and a girl break-up and say that they are still the best of friends, if its only the boy or the girl then its fine but if its their lethal combination that makes it illogical. Now after seeing many of my friends deeply involved I have derived one thing which is that people who are really in love can go to any extent of madness and during that phase of madness their rational thinking drops to an unbelievable level. As one of my best friend asked me this question “Why is it that people always “Fall” in love?”……………….and I believe that no one can give an appropriate answer to that one.