Life compromises all the the natural elements required to survive but the most important important element that makes life livable are the people around u who in the begining were total strangers, whom u probably eyed suspiciously if he was a boy or lustrusly if a girl and never would have thought that in sometime they would be a part of your life. Friendship is seldom done intentionally and mostly happens naturally with the passage of time. As time goes by and u get to know your friends better, u influence them and vice versa. They always come in varied forms and peculiar habits like one of my friends has the habit of strumming his guitar loudly when he's angry at something. A very good medium for letting out frustration but wierd, another one has a habit of never accepting his fault and ends up making the most stupid execuses to hide his embarrasment, another friend is completely forgetful and absent minded even if u go to met her at someplace and when u talk about the previous meeting the next day she would not recall the meeting, Another friend hits people just like that, u are hanging around with her and suddenly "SLAP".....another friend is so curious about things going around him and world that he is sure to find a job in any popular news channel if he tries there. But some poeple are serious when it somes to guide me i have been blessed with a couple of friends who advise me constantly with what has to be done and all. Well thats the kind of people that compromises my friends list. I agree that friends are the spice of life but some friends can be a real pain in the ass like one of my friends has the habit of calling me up everyday in college and asking me where i am when he preciesly even knowns which bench rest's my ass, another one always pretends he is broke when u can actually see the green Rs100 note coming out of his back pocket. Another close friend of mine whom i have known for almost 6 years now suddenly goes out of touch for a month without attending your calls nor returning them when u really want her advise or want to talk to her about something really important concering your life and
then suddenly calls up one day and excepts u not to be mad at her for going out of touch without any reason even though this routine happens once in every 3 months, another friend of mine has this pissing off habit of always braging about anything from his new "undies" to his new wall-clock, a very popularly hated guy i know calls up people only when he wants to get some work done and he can go to any extend to force people to do his work even losing his self respect in the process but still he does it. Guess some people just dont change.
Some friends v make are worth a life time because u end up spending more time with them then with your family and are pretty comfortable sharing anything from sex to career without hesitating and some friends make us regret our decision of having been friends with them. All are peculiar in their approach and views towards life but they in someway or other do influence u in some way or the other change your view points about things. What makes me feel sad is that friendship is never done to gain anything out of anyone but as v grow and face the world not only do we see people making friends for a purpose but also see that people whom v dearly called our best pals are too busy in their life even to think about the time that v spent together and their priorities change completely after a darn girlfriend or boyfriend walks into his/her life. But thats the way it has happened till now so i guess its natural for poeple to change once they are in a relation all i have to say is ..........i hate this natural process of life!!!!!!!!!
i completely agree with u. its true tht in ur life u meet some friends who r good and some who r not. i would just like to suggest u tht we shuld never judge a friend by his trifle behaviour and silly and irritating acts. u shld always step in his shoes to knw him better.u never knw tht whn u desperately need some1 ur most irritating friend wil be d first to help u out.
ReplyDeleteevery person has his priorities but he shld handle thm so as not to disappoint the other who expects frm u. whn a girl or a boy comes in ur life u naturally spend more time with tht person but tht does not mean he forgot all his friends. u will judge ur friends in ur long run
hey buddy i really liked dis article of urs..its vry true hw relations changes like dis..time comes in lyf dat ur best of d best would leave fr sm reasn or d othr..ppl say move on in lyf bt guess i hav neva understood d meanin of movin on..hehe
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